MW4M] 47 | Oahu | Looking for someone who can actually hold a conversation
We are trying something a little different.
I will be traveling and gf asked if she could have a playmate so we are exploring the idea. More her than me. But still trying. We have several rules.
She is not polyamorous so it’s not a relationship. If anything it’s to scratch an itch.
**Most importantly: do not include anything sexual in your message. Do not reference your body or make suggestive comments, even indirectly. If there is any hint of that, your message will be ignored.**
If you reach out, know that your message will be going to the female half of this dynamic. Approach it like you would on a legitimate dating app. That means a real introduction, not a one-liner.
Tell us who you are. What do you enjoy doing when you’re not working? What’s something that genuinely interests you or gets your attention? Hobbies, routines, passions, even small details that say something about you.
We’re not responding to messages like “hey” or “still looking.” We’re also not interested in jumping straight into meeting without knowing anything about you or seeing who you are.
What we care about is how you communicate. Thoughtfulness goes a long way. Effort stands out. We’re looking for quality over quantity and something that feels genuine from the start.
If you’re someone who can express yourself, has a bit of personality, and understands how to make a solid first impression, you’ll probably catch our attention.