u/Despair_Disease

I’m looking to join Discord servers that are geared toward bears and chubs, ideally spaces that are friendly, welcoming, and active. I’ve been trying to work on my confidence when it comes to talking to men I find attractive, and it’s something I still get pretty nervous about. I’m hoping that being part of a more relaxed, community-oriented online space will help me ease into conversations, meet new people, and gradually become more comfortable putting myself out there. I'm 32 and definitely a chub, though not enough hair to really be considered a bear lol. Does anyone have any suggestions?