To all gms
This is partly a rant, partly a reminder to all GMs out there.
Quick story: I had a GM who booked me and even arranged transportation. I told him I’d arrive early since I had just finished a meeting from my day job, so I waited somewhere near the motel we agreed on.
He asked what I was wearing so he could “spot” me, and I sent a photo. While I was already in the area waiting, he suddenly sent the full agreed amount—but didn’t meet me. Instead, he said he wouldn’t continue and told me to just treat it as a donation.
Honestly, that didn’t sit right with me.
If you’re not interested, it’s okay to say so. You can cancel, you can even give a small compensation for the inconvenience—but sending the full amount without showing up feels disrespectful (at least for me). I’m not asking for limos. Being a provider doesn’t mean it’s okay to just throw money without the service—it actually feels degrading.
Some would appreciate the gesture, but not me.
To GMs: before booking, please make sure I’m really your type. We all have different tastes and preferences, and that’s completely okay. I always disclose that I’m not the typical “sexy” or “pretty” PSP—I’m just an average mama—and I send photos beforehand. So sana sigurado muna kayo that you’re into the provider you’re choosing, para hindi sayang oras at pera natin pareho.
Next time, let’s all be more respectful of each other’s time and boundaries. Thank you.
See attached photos/screenshots for reference.