how to approach a feet seller (and actually get treated well)
hi guys! recently i have been getting approached by a LOT of buyers in an extremely disrespectful way, and then seeing posts from buyers that sellers never want to sell to them/ aren't nice. if i or another seller refuse to sell to you and you are NOT a scammer, try again and follow this guide:
before you even THINK of dming a seller, ask yourself: how old is the account? are these photos trustworthy? should i reverse image search just to be sure? how long has this seller been active? does she participate in the community by commenting or otherwise? if the seller looks sketchy, SHE IS! there are too many sellers and too many scammers to play games with your money hoping your d*ck will lead you to the right place
when you initially dm, do NOT just say "menu" "prices" or "hi". no one wants to read this, this is not even worth the effort of replying to. all of my best clients have started with something like "hi there! i am a big fan of what you post and i would love to buy some custom content! could i please see your menu if you have one?"
(BONUS: if the seller you are approaching has a public payment option such as throne, a small gift such as a coffee for $5 can grab her attention, let her know you are serious, and push you to the top of her priority list over a client who did not make that impression)
once you get the menu, do not just start trying to get the "cheapest deal". bargaining, making deals, or trying to get something for free is very rude, and disrespects the fact that this is sex work we are all here doing. if you cannot afford the seller, politely inform them of that, and come back later once you can afford it!
now that it is time to possibly order, you may want to see some verification. that is totally fine! however, do not expect a video with talking, showing face, saying the date + your name + the username. think logically, no woman with a brain in her head is sending that to any random man on the internet. if you have an extremely complex way of verifying that you NEED to see be done, be prepared to purchase a coffee for that seller to compensate her troubles. otherwise, ask her how she likes to verify
if you order a custom, respect add ons. if you order a simple custom video, the seller agrees, and then you pay for it, you may NOT add on JOI, saying your name, nudity, sitting in a different position, ANYTHING without paying extra for it. extra work = extra charge.
if you are NOT happy with ANYTHING (length of time taken to record, quality of video, etc) bring it up to the seller respectfully, and you will more than likely get your issue fixed at no additional cost to you
i hope that this helps you find more success in finding your perfect seller! we are all very nice if you approach respectfully, treating us as humans and not free kink dispensors
