u/Boulsta

As someone who’s had her pussy eaten by many different people (both genders lol), I can say this plainly: porn logic ruins more experiences than it helps.

Fast, aggressive, exaggerated techniques might look good on screen, but in real life they often feel disconnected and uncomfortable. The best partners I’ve been with didn’t “perform” they paid attention.

Seeing how often people relied on porn as their only reference point is one of the reasons I decided to write a book for guys and girls that want to learn how to do it right. Because I swing both ways, I’ve been on both sides of the pussy eating table and over time I started noticing very clear patterns in what works and what absolutely doesn’t.

Obviously every girl is different but it's about picking up on cues and knowing the right techniques to trial to find out what works for your girl. Because once you drop porn logic and understand why certain things work, oral stops being stressful. It becomes intuitive, responsive, and genuinely enjoyable for both people.

Sorry for the self promo but I feel like the world would be a much more satisfying place if more people knew how to give great head. So if you want to give a girl the best oral she's every had then check out my book, it's only on my website because obviously big book marketplaces wouldn't allow something like that 😂. I recorded an audiobook as well for those that like to listen. Be warned though I've been told me talking about eating pussy gives erections or causes wetness in women.

Here's the website - learnhowtolick.com

I thought I'd post this as a bit of self promotion and to help some of you guys that don't know what you're doing down there. I know from my experience as a relationship counselor that great sex is the key to a great relationship and a great life in general. One of the issues that always seems to come up is getting head and giving head.

Guys regularly complain about not getting enough head and blame that for their shitty sex life with their partner. The majority of the time things go stale because of a lack of reciprocation. You have to give great head to get great head.

And let me tell you as a woman I've been with a lot of guys and the ones that know how to eat a girl out are a godsend but they're few and far between. If you know what you're doing down there you'll have no relationship issues I can almost guarantee it haha. I swing both ways so not only do I have same set of “equipment” but I've also eaten my fair share of pussy.

That's why I decided to start writing about how to do it right. So if you want a full walkthrough or talk through (I include audio versions for every book) on how to make your girl cum over and over again, you should check out the books I put together :)

Link here - learnlick.com