21F #online sub looking for sadist master to belong too
I’m a 21F sub with previous experience in bdsm dynamics, so I’m sure in what I’m looking for. I am looking to build a dynamic with a master who enjoys both the more extreme and soft caring sides of kink. I want this dynamic to extend outside of scenes as well and have a foundation of trust on both sides.
In a dom, I am looking for someone who wants to train me into being their ideal toy. I want my submission to put me at your mercy until I’m exactly what you dream of. I want to be trained, used, suffering, and abused because that’s what makes you happy. I want to be degraded until I’m crying, suffer until I beg for mercy, and desperate to earn your approval. That’s what makes me happy.
But I want the soft side as well. I want us to get to know one another, create aftercare routines, and check ins. I experience both subspace and subdrops so this is important to me.
My life outside of kink stays pretty busy as well. I’m a college student and I work so while I’ll want to stay in contact with my dom, a 24/7 arrangement won’t work with my circumstances right now. So I’m looking for someone who probably also stays busy and I’m attracted to doms who are ambitious and stable in their lives.
I of course love a dom leading the conversation and taking some control, but I’m not looking for “you will serve me now” messages in my inbox. Let’s have a conversation and see if we’re looking for the same things